If you know someone who is a drug abuser, speak to them. ~
DRUGS are a big issue in Mzansi and part of the problem is getting addicts to admit they can’t control their addiction.
Bernadette Campbell, group nursing service manager at Clinix Health Group, said the right time to speak to someone was when they were sober and clear headed.
Denying or ignoring the drug abuse is the wrong option as many addicts end up in hospital or dead before they realise they needed help.
She said some people think approaching the person who uses drugs will ruin their relationship.
“Many people feel this way but are surprised to find quite the opposite reaction. Many alcohol and drug addicts secretly hope someone will talk honestly to them about their problem,” she said.
Bernadette said addiction was a lifelong problem that needed to be treated like a medical condition. “It’s easy to recognise the behaviour of drug addicts but it isn’t easy to talk about the problem.”
The South African National Council on Alcoholism held its yearly Drug Awareness Week last month where it offered advice on how to speak to an addict.
Don’t criticise or judge
You are talking to them because you care about their lives and health, not because they are bad people.
Be specific
Talk about instances when the addict betrayed your trust and friendship. Make it personal. Use phrases such as “I’m concerned” or “I’ve noticed”, to make it clear that these are your feelings of concern.
Talk about the bigger problem
Tell them how concerned you are about the effect their drug abuse is having on their family and friends.
Don’t despair
Many addicts will deny they have a problem but stick to the facts, listen, show a caring attitude and offer to help. The addict may plead and try to manipulate you with emotion, but facts can’t be ignored or changed simply because the addict can’t refuse their truth.
For more information or advice, contact the national council’s helplines on 011 892 3475 or 011 892 3139.
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